I know all the stupid questions I asked annoys you. But your patience in trying to answer all the questions captivates me. But then, what seems trivial to you, as a man, is actually important to me. Because, my love, women are insecure creatures. Yeap. No matter how perfect we are. That's why women prone to depression. Telling me, that you love isn't enough. Because I want to know what makes me different from other women that you decided to live with me and hopefully stays true and loyal to me. Many reasons as to why women feels insecure and mostly I have to say owing to the cultures which almost in majority provides kinda negative environment for women to grow up with. Women, sadly, don't have the privilege to be as who we are. A woman is considered incapable if she doesn't master cooking even though she's an equal to male subordinate in workplace. And a woman is being told since young that, if she fails to maintain her beauty, manage the household and raise good kids, then she's a total failure. That's the challenges of being a woman. Women also constantly being informed that husbands can always have a choice to leave them for other younger women. This caused another stress need to be handled by women. Thus it's not easy being a woman, a daughter, a wife and especially a mother. It requires sacrifices. Hence faith in Allah is needed.
I don't ask much from you. Never material items and of course never something that you can't gift. Because all I wanted just you, cherishing me as your wife. And I hope that we'll be blessed by Allah for a peaceful and loving marriage. I just wanna grow old with you. I love you...
Tuesday, July 30, 2019
A wife's feelings part 2
Sunday, July 7, 2019
A wife's feeling... Part 1
Most people misunderstands the feelings of a wife. And it's inevitable in today's double income family. Actually, a wife's feelings and needs are simple. A wife will always need their husbands, come what may. The truth is, it doesn't matter if there are huge differences between the couples' career. Because the most important thing is the willingness to be together and to bask in love with each other.
I'm an official in my workplace. And being a high ranking officer, I possess stubbornness, shrewdness and assertiveness. Yet when I come home everyday, I'm happy, grateful and feel blessed for the little family I have. I'm happy to see my husband and hug him after a long day. And I missed my kids everyday that I can't wait to meet them every evening I come home.
My point is, no matter how a wife performs at workplace, in the end of the day, she's a wife who dotes on her husband and wants her husband to dotes on her. It's actually a simple thing that most of us overlooked.
Love isn't material. Love is what we feel about each other, and how we couldn't bear to harm each other. And love is about cherishing what we feel about each other.
I love you hubby. For accepting me as who I am. Thanx a million!!
Friday, July 5, 2019
Love is....
Love is... When you worried that I might be hungry due to me stubbornly going on a diet and you left me a piece of my favorite fried chicken for me just in case I starved myself... (and I ate the chicken.. Hahaha)
Love is... When I saw a piece of money in my wallet this morning when all the while I'm worried on how to tell you that I've spent all my money and I need some more for my lunches.
Love is... When you silently hug me at nights while I'm sleeping as you detected how tired I am and kissed me.
I love you hubby and thank you sayang...